Life is wonderful, exhilarating, and messy

We all do the best we can with the tools we have available but sometimes it's just hard. You know how easy it is to see what others are doing that gets in the way of their own happiness? You know how tricky it is to have that same perspective about your own life? Let me help you with that.

​I coach women of a certain age who used to love sex but now it's just another f-ing thing on their to do list and entrepreneurs who are ready to get out of their own way and into their ideal practice.

When I coach you I:
  • thoroughly explore your goals so that we both know EXACTLY what you want and why
  • remind you of your goals when you get distracted or worried
  • know that there is nothing wrong with you; you are not broken
  • wildly celebrate your successes
  • treat you with respect and confidentiality
  • help you create ways to dismantle roadblocks in front of your goals
  • notice with you when you are causing those roadblocks and help you undo them
  • guide you to unlearn habits and assumptions that get in the way of your goals
  • avoid shame and blame
  • move at a pace that works for you
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Joy McShane Oyler

Having Joy as a coach has given my professional efforts focus and put the pieces of my life into perspective. She is organized and direct with compassion and sensitivity. She's a wonderful listener. She's just what I need.
Linda Leitz, PhD
CFP

I just finished a 10-session coaching package with Joy and boy was it good! Even life changing in many ways. Joy doesn’t toot her own horn, she just quietly holds a beautiful space and says those right words at the right time that can change your life. I very much recommend her as a coach for those who want to do serious in-depth work with amazing results.
Nina, 56
MD, Sweden